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Dating is a Waste of Money

Submitted By: Cory Skyy

Dating is old-school thinking. Back in the 40's and 50's, that's what you did with a girl. You would pick her up from her parents' house, take her out for dinner and a movie, and kiss her goodnight on the front porch.

It doesn't work like this anymore. In the modern world, dating isn't exciting nor passionate... and yet most guys still cling to it because it fits the traditional rules that have been drummed into their heads by parents and society. What they end up doing is boring the poor girl to death because it's exactly what every other guy has done.

By being authentic and going against the grain of what a typical guy does, you automatically... and naturally... draw out curiosity and sexual desire in women.

Which is why you want to make yourself different from every other guy out there. So don't do what every other guy does. A woman expects a man to follow the rules and kiss up to her. Instead, do something different... because deep down, that's what she really wants you to do. Women love the unexpected. Women love spontaneity. There is nothing spontaneous about dinner and a movie.

Not to mention all the pressure and expectations that go along with dating. All the anxiety you feel about "doing it right" and "impressing her" causes nothing but pre-date tension that can make you act like an idiot while you're on the date. Even the word "date" itself is loaded with performance anxiety.

Plus, there's the danger of wasting your hard-earned money on a girl you may never want to see again. Way back when I was 19, I used to take girls on dates because I too fell in the trap of society's rules. But seeing as I was already great with women, I was going on 3-4 different dates a week.

Most of the time, the girls proved to be total whack-jobs by the end of the night. ll I usually ended up with was an empty wallet. At the time, I was only making $1500 a month, so you can see the trouble I was creating for myself. Ramen noodles quickly became my staple food.

Another reason many guys feel that they need to buy a big expensive dinner is this crazy notion that all women want a guy with money. Yes, money can influence a woman with certain guys. But trust me, I was dead broke for many years of my life, and I never had any problem stealing a girl's interest from a rich guy she had been talking to.

When you change your mindset to "I am THE man", women see it in you. This is so powerful that many women will pay for your dinner, take you on a trip, or fly you into whatever city they're in. Trust me, it happens a lot more often than you may think.

So what's better than dating? Simple. Hanging out. If you meet a girl and you want to get to know her, say, "Hey, I'm going over to Bill's Bar on Friday night. Why don't you hang with me for a few drinks?"

The more casual the place, the more casual the conversation, the more comfortable the situation will be for you and for her.

Don't let this happen to you. You don't have to impress a girl by paying for fancy dinners. That's not what women really want, anyway. What they want is a unique experience with a unique guy.

Be that unique guy.